A Tip For Everyone Who Will Ever Work

In a recent discussion with a job seeker, it came up
that he has a network that is not at all serving him
in his job search.

Unfortunately this is not something for most people
that’s a quick fix (hurry, go out and meet 100 new
connections by tomorrow!). And, as you’ve probably
realized, strong networks are extremely helpful when
it comes to finding new jobs. So here’s my invitation
to you… build up your network before you need it.

How To Network The Fun & Easy Way

And, you might as well just do it in a way that you
like! Consider the places you’re already involved
(on a work, social, political, spiritual, or even
volunteer basis), and give a little more time or
attention to the people there that you enjoy.

Pick new things you’re interested in instead of
places you feel you “should” network. You’ll show
up enjoying yourself and will attract more positive,
helpful people.

How To Make Everyone Like You

Whether you’re a wallflower or social butterfly (or
any flora or fauna in between), one simple thing will
make it easy for you to connect with others in a way
that makes them think you’re really interesting…

Ask about them. Be curious about what they’re up
to, the challenges they’re facing, and what’s most
fun for them these days. You even can play a game
with yourself to remember one thing that the two of
you talked about last time and ask for an update.

Here’s the only caveat… Curiosity can be hard to fake.
So just go ahead and really BE CURIOUS.

And, enjoy yourself!